Everything I know I learned on the first day of school

Everything I know I learned on the first day of schoolEverything I know I learned on the first day of schoolWhen life becomes unfamiliar, thats when we grow the most. As I recall, few days in my life were more foreign than the first day of school. Specifically, first grade.Way back in September 1990, everything was new. My clean, white sneakers that had yet to touch the playground dirt a Trapper Keeper stocked with unmarked loose-leaf paper a classroom of strange-looking seven-year-olds just as nervous as I was.Millions of kids feel the same butterflies that come with change. In hindsight, the first day of school - no matter the grade - offers the building blocks for successful adulthood. With a nod to Robert Fulghums classic bestseller All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten, this is what we learn on day one.Look in the mirror before walking outsideA lifetime of checking ur appearance begins on the first day of first grade. From then on, we make sure to give at least h alf a glance in the mirror before we head out for the day. Hair? Check.Wrinkle-free shirt?Check. Million-dollar smile? Double-check.Thanks, first grade.Learn to let go and be on our ownWe tip-toe into the first day of school clutching our parents hand but must ultimately say good-bye andface the challenge alone. From an early age, we understand that, while a support system matters, we have to first rely on ourselves.Hi, my name is _____. Whats yours?The samenetworking strategy for an after-work happy hourmatters in elementary school too. In a room where you dont know a soul, the best ice breaker has always been a simple, genuine introduction.A lifetime of recessWe spend hours cooped up at our desks and need time each day to run around andget the blood flowing. Wait, are we talking about the playground at school or gym after work? Exactly.Assurance of a hand-written noteOn the first day of school, nothing calms the nerves like ahand-written note from mom tucked inside our lunchbox. A quick Youre doing great. I love you is a giant exhale that reminds us everything will be OK. Sometimes (all the time) grown-ups need confidence boosters too.Life at the sound of the bellBEEEEEEP First grade officially begins with the inaugural chime of the school bell. As adults, we dont need a school bell to stay on track because that familiar blare is forever etched into our brains. Its like time management before we even knew the meaning of the phrase.Now and then, we have to wait our turnIf our class ventures out of the room, we walk in a single-file line. When we answer the teachers math problem, we raise our hand and wait to be called. As adults, we then find ourselves (begrudgingly)in line at the DMVand holding our hand high during a speakers Q A. Where did we learn to be so patient? The first day of school.Early education in mass transitWhen the first day comes to an end, were ushered into the parking lot to find our designatedbright yellow cheese-wagon. At that moment, we have one mission get on the right bus. Later in life, we obey the same rules as we navigate complex bus routes and elaborate subway systems.Finally home after a long day, theres nothing better than kicking off our shoes and settling into the couch with something cold to drink.The same goes for being an adult.This article was originally published on DannyRubin.com.